Alone.. Well it makes you Strong

You know it takes a lot of guts to admit that.. yes ! I am all alone in this world..This is the time when you make up your mind and differentiate from others saying " This is damn me ". We people find it a bit tough because we are after all Human Beings - a social animal. It scared the hell out of me for the very first time i felt myself alone.

I will tell my experience here.. I went Assam to live in a hostel for the first time, and i didn't knew anything about the Assamese language, & you know it is quite a scary feeling that no one of your's dear ones are near you as well as knowing that you don't know the local language as well, i faced the consequences there of not knowing that language & was all alone the whole day.. Days became month, months became year, i was struggling to learn that language (i am a slow learner), but i had that command over the spoken language so well that the new fellows who came in the school thought me as Assamese, i didn't ever had the command to write that language. But whole through that one year i felt alone, cornered, not knowing what to do, what not to do.. I was so alone sometimes that i started talking with the trees, the nature, animals & felt that they heard me..
Irony was that, People there didn't heard me, i was first a joke to everyone because i was trying to learn that language..eventually started speaking a bit & then they were interested talking to me..

People are often alone nowadays..they fight it everyday to figure it out what is it, that is killing them inside but alas ! the reason is nowhere to be found because its you who is making yourself feel alone.. Alone is not just a word, it means when the whole world is against you & you can't reach out your best person who can understand you..
So, folks ! what actually is being alone ? A feeling, a disease, a emotion, mood..In many cases we find it that every of the word is true to an extent..but solely it is you who decides being alone..Its never a pain when you decide it, but it is a pain when you decide not to come out of it.. This is the time when we get time for ourselves, we think of all the gas that has brought us down here, perhaps we think who actually we are.. why me into this situation..be it the case of anything, people will never forget to say 'why me ?'..this will actually get off from our minds when we will get something positive for being alone..Like i said, i learnt Assamese actually by being alone, & 8 years later when i fill my C.V, writing in it that i know Assamese boosts me that those situations were made for me to become this smart to know that language..I feel great being alone now :)

It has an extra ordinary benefit that the next time you face the same situation, you smile saying oh come on ! what a time to know about yourself from inside.. I had the option to remain silent while in the hostel so as not to feel humiliated by not trying to speak the local language but i tried & that led me talking with trees, the thing that gives goosebumps that.. is that really true ? Yes it is, situations make you do that.. There is always a fighting heart inside every of our heart that never gives up.. grab hold of it, the next time you face the choice of being alone because that is what will make us strong enough to handle those storms..

Enjoying it as a game or taking it as negativity all depends is on the mindset of people.. They are the one who go deep into it & they are the one who come out with a new zeal..Hope never fades..because every situation will end someday sometime.. All we people need to do is to hold ourselves during those great lows of our life, because a better tomorrow is waiting for us..

Enjoy being Alone when situations makes you..for, it will make you strong !! Cheers..