A Little Knowledge About Love...

Love is in the Air !! Is it ??  I don't think so, the day you will be feeling that love is in the air, either you are in the arms of Nature or you have gone mad.. No literally, i mean look at people around you, they tend to fake their emotions more than they show what actually they are feeling..

A profound happiness perhaps comes when you come to know that, there is someone secretly loving you..Isn't it a beautiful feeling, that you have got an admirer.. Well, we the puppets of god if can't even control our emotions how come we think that we will be taming nature !

Today i came to know that a girl likes one of my friend , that he is her crush.. people often flow in emotions.. she did the same, he just asked her a simple question.. What do you expect from your Life Partner ? and then her reply was, 'LOVE, RESPECT & CARE'. Who won't love to have all these 3 things at the same time, but conditions applied was her reply, that she doesn't wants to be bothered by those annoying calls & messages every now & then people get, when they are in a relationship.. 

Fact is fact folks..We will be always annoyed by those calls & messages because your loved ones are concerned for you, they have a fear of insecurity of loosing you if they are not in constant touch with you..Take for example your mother's love, she knows your everyday activity but then, she calls you often on a daily basis just to know that you are doing good.. Same is the case of Love, Affection one might say..because it's a bonding, a bridge of trust.. Yes, it's right that, if one has got faith then why so concerned ! No, if your partner is not concerned about you, that's Lust folks..that's not Love.. You have gotta differentiated between Love & Lust..

Some might believe in Love at First Sight.. but irony is, you have got brains first which makes you human.. Heart is in animals as well.. Harsh to say but logical enough to change someone's perception..

The meaning of love has changed people.. It's Pollution in the air, it's pollution in the Heart, in Brains.. If you gotta do something about it then try to adjust with your partner rather than complaining all the time.. Such a beautiful feeling & people create Nuisance of it..

I have a different perception, you may be having yours.. But Logically, don't you think it's true to use your Brains first then to just let your Heart out for someone you hardly know !! Think about it.... 

Alone.. Well it makes you Strong

You know it takes a lot of guts to admit that.. yes ! I am all alone in this world..This is the time when you make up your mind and differentiate from others saying " This is damn me ". We people find it a bit tough because we are after all Human Beings - a social animal. It scared the hell out of me for the very first time i felt myself alone.

I will tell my experience here.. I went Assam to live in a hostel for the first time, and i didn't knew anything about the Assamese language, & you know it is quite a scary feeling that no one of your's dear ones are near you as well as knowing that you don't know the local language as well, i faced the consequences there of not knowing that language & was all alone the whole day.. Days became month, months became year, i was struggling to learn that language (i am a slow learner), but i had that command over the spoken language so well that the new fellows who came in the school thought me as Assamese, i didn't ever had the command to write that language. But whole through that one year i felt alone, cornered, not knowing what to do, what not to do.. I was so alone sometimes that i started talking with the trees, the nature, animals & felt that they heard me..
Irony was that, People there didn't heard me, i was first a joke to everyone because i was trying to learn that language..eventually started speaking a bit & then they were interested talking to me..

People are often alone nowadays..they fight it everyday to figure it out what is it, that is killing them inside but alas ! the reason is nowhere to be found because its you who is making yourself feel alone.. Alone is not just a word, it means when the whole world is against you & you can't reach out your best person who can understand you..
So, folks ! what actually is being alone ? A feeling, a disease, a emotion, mood..In many cases we find it that every of the word is true to an extent..but solely it is you who decides being alone..Its never a pain when you decide it, but it is a pain when you decide not to come out of it.. This is the time when we get time for ourselves, we think of all the gas that has brought us down here, perhaps we think who actually we are.. why me into this situation..be it the case of anything, people will never forget to say 'why me ?'..this will actually get off from our minds when we will get something positive for being alone..Like i said, i learnt Assamese actually by being alone, & 8 years later when i fill my C.V, writing in it that i know Assamese boosts me that those situations were made for me to become this smart to know that language..I feel great being alone now :)

It has an extra ordinary benefit that the next time you face the same situation, you smile saying oh come on ! what a time to know about yourself from inside.. I had the option to remain silent while in the hostel so as not to feel humiliated by not trying to speak the local language but i tried & that led me talking with trees, the thing that gives goosebumps that.. is that really true ? Yes it is, situations make you do that.. There is always a fighting heart inside every of our heart that never gives up.. grab hold of it, the next time you face the choice of being alone because that is what will make us strong enough to handle those storms..

Enjoying it as a game or taking it as negativity all depends is on the mindset of people.. They are the one who go deep into it & they are the one who come out with a new zeal..Hope never fades..because every situation will end someday sometime.. All we people need to do is to hold ourselves during those great lows of our life, because a better tomorrow is waiting for us..

Enjoy being Alone when situations makes you..for, it will make you strong !! Cheers..

Life a Boon A Curse

LIFE a gift you may say because you enjoy every bit of it, a curse you may say because you fight living it everyday.
People on this earth are so pleased sometimes that they forget what they have done until its too late to make those mistakes correct. With every moment passing by who wouldn't like to enjoy within themselves !
But real beauty lies within you, by helping others, no matter how reckless, wicked, arrogant, foolish they may seem but when you lend them a helping hand the Karma watches you. A firm belief says that when you help people, people tend not only recognizing you but also that helps making a positive mark on their SOUL.
Soul because its the nature of human that they remember the rude, ignorant act much longer than the act of kindness. So, they will forget you at times when they think you are no more of any help to them but their soul will definitely make them remember sometime that it was you who made him/her come over the adverse situation they were facing someday sometime.

Take for instance, this Diwali i didn't went home because i thought it will make me weak, that compassion of mother's lap, that love of mother's food, that comfort of being at home will definitely melt me down somewhere.. Hence i was wandering around just to groove into the surroundings of my college & i happened to met with an old man struggling to pelt some cash out of ATM, he called me 'Son, if you would please check how come the cash isn't coming out of the machine ?' I helped him to take his cash, & he said this amount was the pension he gets every month for serving in Indian Army, his eyes were filled with joy, a joy that only a person in need of that money might understand.. He was thanking me again & again..
I moved along the way, hoping it will lead me somewhere, happy with helping a person in need i surrendered myself to the mother nature laying in a garden feeling the tinge of the sun & thinking about my future.
Hoped along the man to whom i helped recently, he had packets of sweets, some new clothes probably for a guy little younger than me, he saw me lying there & a smile came on his face, i smiled back.. He came to me asked about me & i told m all alone here we can enjoy each others company.. listening so he sat near me & thanked me again & started narrating his struggle with life...

He lost his son, the only earner in the family, his grandson is good in studies & he is bound to make his father's name proud, never did he took his struggles as a problem..rather only thought about his family, his grandson, his wife, his daughter-in-law who's a widow & how she works hard everyday to secure her son's future.. He even offered me some sweets & again reminded how important it was for him to take those cash out. The important thing i remember is the way he said, "I am a Veteran, i have fought war my life, so this fight will surely get over the day my Grandson turns his head up"

This inspirational thought from a 70 year old man with sweat dripping from his forehead, joy in his eyes was quite a wonderful thing i experienced, because people nowadays easily give up, especially the teenagers who are fed up with their small breakup & they loose their cool so easily.. I even struggle with my studies, i am a average student coming from a middle class family who's only goal is to earn money to be labelled as a rich class like every other middle class boy does. But after hearing his worries..literally not because he thought about himself but because he was thinking about his family, if he would have thought about himself i bet he wouldn't have been wearing a slipper that was about to get torn. I thought my worries are so less, i make it complicated.. Situations are simple we make it complicated be it a day-to-day problem or a problem related with your future endeavors.

Last but not the least i would like to conclude that life according to the Hindu mythology came to us after 7,00,000 deaths in the form of insects, animals whatever you may think of, so why waste struggling with it, no matter there are a heck lot of ups & downs in our life, emotions were hurt, people you loved betrayed you, you didn't expected something that happened in your life.. Oh ! these are just excuses, the day one will start expecting results from every small thing one does, a person won't be disappointed, a person won't be broken, a person won't get depressed.
The thing is Enjoy life, enjoy the little things happening around you, the chirruping of a bird, a ant carrying a grain, the small flower blossoming everything will be joyous...

LIVE LIFE !!